Transparency to me in this context that she should at least give me a heads up as to her plans without going silent for hours. At least this is how I explained things to her.
Anyhow, Friday my home WiFi was acting up. I logged in and it allows me to see what apps are running. Noticed a new app, Kik. Found out its a messenger app. I installed on own phone and there was her profile...using maiden name. Ugh. That night I called her out...asked to see phone. Only messages showing were from a girlfriend. She said she was using it because they could video chat. From WiFi, I think wife had only been running it that one day. Just more suspicions.