I just feel like in our relationship and even in initial marital counseling i was written off as being over anxious.

But now I'm discovering that my anxieties were actually my intuitions and why the hell wasn't I taking them seriously? And why did everyone doubt me?

I think it's because of how I come across sometimes? I want so bad to be fair to others and humble myself but it makes others see me as weak or as wrong.

I need to project myself better. Speak with more authority maybe? And I will be taken more seriously. I jate those types of games though.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer