I understand what you're saying Sorting through the financial stuff is making me realize I was married to a stranger. I never understood, and would argue all these behaviors that I found really, really strange.
We go to court very soon. And I am scared. My lawyer was trying to arrange for ex to have son a bit more. She felt that since I needed more availability to work that it would be a fair option.
But we failed to really diagnose..."hey, why is someone so voluntarily uninvolved in their child's life?"
The high amounts of money taken out in bad neighborhoods (I'm talking 4 digits in a year in just 1 particular sketchy town that is not near where we live) Really scares me because my so is 6. He's there every other weekend. I always thought he was safe and now I don't know what's happening. And how to handle. And I just found this info and I don't have a lot of time to act or get advice from the experts. .
