Hi Kevin, Sorry your situation has come to this, but I can certainly understand how you have examined your heart about how you want this to go. And I think you're wise to hold off your comments to her until it's signed on the dotted line. You will have a chance to both tell AND show her at some point. The best revenge anyway is for you to be OK, and move on to the life, relationships, treatment and love you deserve. Don't be a stranger here, though. You've given some great advice to everyone, and a strong encouragement.
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton
