I think i'm going to give up on this whole divorce busting thing. My wife is too far gone and being too horrible of a human for me to want to take her back, even if she she said she wanted to make it work.
I'll keep learning from my mistakes and making changes for me and not her. But, i'm probably not going to hold back in future mediation sessions of pushing for what i want in the long run (more time with kids, bigger share of assets, etc.). Until now, i've been a good person about it and negotiated "fair" compromises. But, since she's the one ending our marriage and continuing her affair, I'm going to push for more than half of everything.
I also really just want to tell her off. She deserves to hear it. But, i'll probably wait until after I have signed custody and asset agreements. I just gotta stay nice until then, while also pushing for whats in my best interest.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
