I'm probably the only person in my group of people that know of my situation that doesn't think W is having a PA, or at least a EA.
I made the choice when the shit hit the fan that I would not spy, follow, etc. regarding this part of my life. If she is, and if she tells me about at a later time (or I find out by accident) I'm already in the place I need to be to forgive her.
It's hard. Having thoughts once in awhile that W may be in the arms of another man. But I block it out!!!!!!!
I know that some folks here my think I'm just fooling myself with this. But, it's my way of handling it. It's working for me and I'm sure I've made the right choice. It may not be the choice everyone makes. There's already enough work here for me to do. Making my marriage work is hard.
