My next question would be on how to get intimacy outside of the bedroom? We're having plenty of sex and the W has noticed and is clearly pleased with the changes I have made(which I made for myself). But still wants a BD, which I believe could be solved with other forms of intimacy on the regular (example: hand holding, hugging, kissing, touching flirtatiously, etc.). So how do I go about making these things happen? Because right now it feels like we're great friends with benefits.
