His statements make a lot of sense to me. He is stating that you've always known what needs to be done and have taken care of things and that's your quality.
His quality of life is far different from yours and, in his mind, he thinks you are expecting him to be the same way, i.e., the way you do things.
Let me ask you this...how are his parents? Were they strict or expected him to do things their way all of the time? Is he projecting on to you the way his parents think and their expectations of how he should be?
People change, but that statement says a lot about him and maybe what transpired as he was growing up. Think about my questions for a while.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
