Originally Posted By: EastTN
Talked to psychologist today, was a good meeting. Talked about wants and not really having any (was thinking mostly material at first). She asked if I had any non-material ones, and I had a few. She said it was a good start.

East - This is awesome. After years of not doing much for me, I feel like I'm still moving boxes around in my head like a piled up store room for things to do/want. It's a process like any of this. Great that you're seeing someone to help you with it. I just went to my IC for the 3rd time yesterday since this all started up and it helps so much.

Originally Posted By: EastTN
Got chatted up by a walmart cashier when I picked up the beer/soda for the evening. That's not exactly a high bar, but it was good for my self-esteem in any case.

"Not a high bar". :-) Been in similar waters lately and it does help the esteem regardless of the source!

Originally Posted By: EastTN
Her answer was, "It depends, when are you bringing the truck?"

NOT my problem.

Please tell me you told her "not my problem". :-)


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