Round 2

[Tryin2figuritout]

Thanks Thornton. I had been doing well, but lost it a bit tonight during our move. I guess she just hit a big red button on me and I vented.

My SIL came to help move with my W and two kids. Once we got everything up, the kids wanted to check out the pool at the apartment and it was just me and the W. W said something about the kids dealing with the changes in our M and I asked her to define what she meant by "changes in our marriage".

I remained fairly calm during all this, but I was just fed up with a phrase like "changes in our marriage" when she's just a walking away. That's not changes in OUR M, that's just her decision. It sparked a fuse.

I honestly don't feel bad about it because I remained calm and with respect. I acknowledged and validated her feelings, but I couldn't bottle this up.

Hoping tomorrow morning brings a little clarity for me. The good news is I know my path is not different. It's me and the munchkins. We're trying to figure out where we want to go on vacation this summer for just the three of us.