I believe I was targeted for money, so the abuser abused deliberately and raged when I set my boundaries. And as the target, nothing the abuser did was our responsibility. Nothing. And abuse is like warm water which boils slowly. It stinks.
And the doubt is because of gaslighting reality. Questioning myself. Once you know you are a target, once you have a spell break, then you are almost gaslight bullet proof.
They also create a double bind. For instance, "I don't like spaghetti, you know that so why serve it to me?" Two weeks later "you don't serve spaghetti, that's because you know I love it".
Or "you are wearing jeans again,you look a mess" and later" why are you dressed formally, you would be more comfortable in jeans"
Or "you buy the wrong juice, get it into your thick head I only drink A P P L E juice" then goes out and gets orange juice.
Nuts. And now I see it.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
