don't get bogged down in one conversation or gesture. There are no "Right words said in the correct order" that will change your w.
You cannot solve her puzzle. Leave her to it.
And be respectful, kind and strong for your kids and yourself. So, IF IF IF your wife snaps out of her long long funk, AND IF she gets help
then you can post here and we'll all chime in to help.
I would accept that she is leaving soon. Doesn't mean you'll never see her again or ever feel loved again or that she won't want to return,
but the chances of that^^ are more likely if you just let her go,
and the chances of you being happy are higher if you GAL, Detach and heal.
Don't obsess about all the possible outcomes...you have no control over her own journey.
Just your own. I think you are making more progress than you realize.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
