I was weak.

She is moving out tomorrow. I asked to talk to her for a minute. We needed to talk about money, but then, thinking it would be easier if she was still in the house, I said if she had any interest left in saving our marriage, I had an idea (basically using DB's idea of explicitly stating what we wanted from the other to build some good will, and then building on that) that might help, but would still be workable if she moved out. I didn't mention the specifics.

The conversation went basically no where. The eternal optimist in me says maybe I planted an idea that will bear fruit, but the practical side of me says I screwed up.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17