That sounds like a great evening and just what the Relationship Doctor would have prescribed. And great GAL lined up.
I'm well behind you in the process, so take anything I say with a grain of salt, but (positive) momentum seems so key to forging a path after the sorts of trauma we've all experienced. I was at the gym yesterday, and I saw a guy who had to be 70 years old at least knock out 8 full, dead-hang pullups. Incredible! I had to ask how he got so strong. He said he was strong when he was much younger and just never stopped doing pullups every other day or so, so he never lost that strength. He said he knows if he stops, he'll go backward, and quickly, so he never stops going forward. I'm taking that thought into this weekend, for sure.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)