The fact that things happened so quickly really messes with my head. She went from jumping up and down when we learned we were under contract for our new home (after searching for several months) to having an argument, to her leaving me, all within a few weeks.
I felt we were so close to the next chapter in our lives. It's what we had worked towards for so long. We were within reach of our goal and dreams. For that to go up in a puff of smoke, kills me.
Same here. In January, we finally settled on not selling our home at this point as we've been flip flopping for a while. We did so because we've got just a few more years before both kids in High School. Let's focus on paying off debt, plan out this, plan out that... nevermind, I'm miserable and I'm out, PEACE!!
Such a wrench in the plans, right??? Totally understand the swings and you know this is all part of it. Breathe in the good air and out the bad.
Whatchya got going on for the weekend? Let's turn the attention to some good stuff so we're not stuck wallowing. You got to vent it on the board now let's turn our attention elsewhere.
Hang in there.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
