Thanks job. Just browsed the last two links you added.

Proof that it is possible even after D to reconcile. Wow 10 years later.

Good to read those stories. Others who have not yet should too.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together