I know we're not supposed to talk about other books/materials, but sounds like you should google "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and check out Glover's work there if you haven't.
It's all about recognizing some of the pitfalls of putting yourself last. Being a nice guy I can see where this has created issues for me in my R with my W.
Best of luck.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
