Light bulb comes on the following morning.... I'm forgetting the basics.

Last night's argument had some perfect opportunities for validation, but I just reacted and threatened to start treating her how she was treating me, see how she liked it.

How easily this marionette dances to his puppet masters tune.

Re-focus. I need to work on validation that doesn't involve me being a doormat.

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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18