I am all for forgiving. Minus the last couple of months she has been a good wife, though there have been issues. I believe our problems are communication and complacency. Just need her to want to out the effort in as well. She told me that she believes this issues can be fix, but doesn't want to bother. Claim to ILYBNILWY. But prior to the cruise we were planning our 15 year anniversary and she was telling me she lived me. Came back from the cruise a different person. That's when I started to learn about Affair Fogs. This guy is clearly no good according to his own W. But yet my wife can't see the obvious. The list for the AP seems to be blocking the efforts on my part. To a coworker who works in mental health section at my job says it sounds as if she having a mid life crisis. W33 was married to me at 19 and mother at 20. He claim this is the exact time a woman her age and life experience would be going through this. Which is why I am trying to be patient and hoping this would blow over.
