How do I know when there is no hope and it is completely over?

She acts as if she is completely done and moving "ON" while I am moving "FORWARD". These ideas that creep into my mind are dumb. Why do I still think about her when it appears that she couldn't not care less about me or RM?

Vent...
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M 8 yrs
EA 6/16
PA 09/16
Separated 10/16
WW moves out 11/16
D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17