Which means there was gaslighting in my view, the LBS has convinced themselves there is still a lot of love.
Do you think that my belief that my wife still has a lot of love for me (or at least did right before she switched over to the OM) is a false belief?
What I think doesn't matter. There is that probability and it needs considering.
Why?
At the moment you have only one view of it.
You may never know what is in her head. She left and did not work on M. That stinks frankly especially as you felt it was full of love.
What matters to me is you and your future. That you consider this possibility and know that working on you is the best option.
I say this to encourage you to think about your choices. Like 25 because this option as a choice is a possibility that can stimulate your thoughts to growth and development of you.
Originally Posted By: Vanilla
That's why I think it's unreasonable the action of the wayward because it's script.
Sorry. I don't understand this sentence. Can you elaborate on that?
When spouses leave they seem to have a 'script'. A playbook. Waywards do that which they need including practiced and well rehearsed lies. That is hurtful too.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
