A wayward can be happy when they get what they want. I think we assume they can't but they can. Is FB real? Yes I think it can be.
We wish to believe it isn't happiness or its fake. Not necessasrily they can be ecstatic. Of course they can, an A partner can make a wayward happy.
They can be in limmerance and that can be lovely for them. It can be real too.
Making the LBS miserable can make the wayward happy too.
Frankly I think that's a good thing, the happier they are then the more they are deluded.
I personally don't like diagnosis by the self, so I am unsure googling anything to do with narc stuff is helpful. Only 2% of the population has these traits (apparantly) although the studies giving the stats are clinical. The stats are doubtful in my vieW.
It is by my actions you shall know me.
Happy or not the behaviour is truly rotten and those who do this are also behaving in a rotten way irrespective of their rotten core.
Waywards can be deluded and delusional.
Bragging on FB is at best bad manners and at worst idiotic.
Do I think happiness of the wayward matters? Not at all, not one jot. Does it matter if it crashes and burns? Does it matter if there is a sweet cycle?
What matters is what the LBS wants, the waywards happiness is irrelevant to that. Different circus and another's monkeys. Is it that if the Wayward is unhappy they will return repentant? I doubt that too. Will unhappiness want a wayward to return to an M they found unhappy?
Let the wayward be happy, then go be happy too.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
