Originally Posted By: Vanilla
Which means there was gaslighting in my view, the LBS has convinced themselves there is still a lot of love.

Do you think that my belief that my wife still has a lot of love for me (or at least did right before she switched over to the OM) is a false belief?

Originally Posted By: Vanilla
That's why I think it's unreasonable the action of the wayward because it's script.

Sorry. I don't understand this sentence. Can you elaborate on that?

M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.