I'm still trying to save someone, I've just changed who I am trying to save. I still am trying to make EVERYTHING my responsibility. I'm further setting myself up with an expectation that, at some point, I am not going to want to meet for whatever reason, thus probably making things worse in the long run.
And I'm masking my desire to fix my marriage in the form of having a positive relationship with W built around our daughter for D's benefit.
