Originally Posted By: EastTN
Am I justifying again? frown



That is one way of putting it...

I think that you are making things way too easy on everyone except the one person that you should be making it easy on...


As far as the MIL, I understand what you are trying to do...

I will say this though..

It is not your job to facilitate their relationship.

It is your job to NOT damage it...



Blood is thicker than water, and eventually, your boat will become stuck trying to paddle in it too long...

And before you cancel or whatever...

Let this time ride.

In the future ??

What do YOU , (forgetting a marriage, relationship, whatever) want that to look like ???

Hey Phil, yea, I'm gonna have to cancel Bigfoot hunting this weekend. Yea, I gotta facilitate my EX-MIL's relationship with her Grandchild...



^^^^ Prolly not gonna work for YOU...