A lot of very wise people on here. I can tell you all the overall mistake I've made here and not that this is going to come as any surprise. I didn't have patience. I wanted immediate results. This (or anything in life) doesn't work that way. Don't be an idiot like me and loose your wife, family and everything else because you are impatient. One of the crazy things that I said to my wife one time during all of this is "we are smart people that make a lot of money and have a lot of things, we can figure this out". Ha! What a joke. It doesn't matter how smart you are, how good of a job you have, how handsome/pretty you are, etc... NONE of that matters at the end of the day. I have now somewhat shifted my focus to Grief Recovery and have discovered the 5 Stages and can honestly say that I have bounced around in each of these stages quite a bit (more so #1-4). Hope this helps someone out there.
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17
