Originally Posted By: sandi2
You mentioned pride. My lord how I had so much pride.

Sandi, would you mind writing a little bit more on pride for all of us? How prideful of a person would you say you were before the A ever happened? Did that increase after the A started? You mentioned remorse and humility, what did that process look like for you? Hope I'm not opening old wounds, I'm just curious and I thought others might be as well.

Originally Posted By: sandi2
I marvel how helpful you continue to be for others, and in spite of your pain.......you do not sound bitter in your positive & supporting posts on threads of board members. You have always given wonderful advice, and the first thing I noticed in your thread........is how you give yourself the same brand of advice. That our 25!

She has been amazing! I wish she weren't going through all of this again and I don't know how she is able to help others so well while she's going through her own hell. She's a really remarkable woman from everything I've seen! Hang in there!


M-32 W-32 (both military)
T-8 M-6
PA Oct/Nov 16 (happened twice)
Discovered PA 11/30/16
S 12/1/16
MC 12/1/16 - 1/18/17
BD 1/18/17
A continues? 1/24/17 texts resume with W & OM
W Filed 3/8/17
W Deploys 7/17