Roist - though you say your sitch has not changed that much, I can say I have seen much growth in you.

There is a peace and a calm about you. It resonates when you write that you know in the long run you can see yourself happy w/your wife and happy w/out her.

Keep on trudging forward, marching toward the best possible you!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced