Nothing new to report here. Getting my hair done tonight and tomorrow is my last day at work! H slept in the room again and kissed me goodnight. We haven't had R talk since last Wednesday. I've kept my distance but I have been polite and not overly outgoing. Good. How do YOU feel about this^^? A bit less stressed?
Still undecided about tomorrow... I'm sure if I go I'll end up asking about OW to some extent ugh!
Must you go with him? I thought you had the option of going alone!
so why go with him when you KNOW you'll engage in an R talk that neither of you is ready for when you have a baby coming next week?
T0, Step back for 2 minutes and look at that^^^...be objective. What would you tell someone who is in your shoes? and discussing my feelings and I'm not sure he is in a place to hear that. Oh, you're not sure he's in a place to hear that? Well I am.
I'm sure he's NOT in a place to hear it...
just saying...
Any advice? Do I need to just be quiet if I go?
Please, please go alone...you won't have time after the baby comes.
You need insights from the IC, not an argument or trial with your evidence and verdict. I am not defending him. I am trying to help you buy some time until after the baby comes.
As a last last resort, if it were me, I'd go and just STFU and listen to him. I worry a lot that you are not able to do that.
So maybe you can Consider it a "recon mission". You're there to Gather information so you can lessen the guessing.
if it were me, I would not give any more generic ultimatums about how you "need more/commitment" signs. They are a bit vague. That's my .02
T0, I sure hope you go without h, so you can just hear the IC's advice. He knows you two better.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
