So Confused and Conflicted (7)

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M and R do get resolved. Generally better when the spouse is a walkaway rather than a wayward. The LBS gets it together.

LBS with waywards stay longest and those with abusive sitches and compulsives/addictive need more help. We often post most to those who are in most distress.

I worked some stats on it once. The more wayward in terms of OP the less likely to resolve.

In the end it's usually the LBS that walks away for good. By becoming the best you can be then you outgrow the wayward.

Those are my thoughts

V