Flight on, I'm sorry your h told you about being served this week. It's not a good feeling, but I can tell you that everything your h is doing is just par for the course. There's nothing you can do about it. My ex also let me know that he went out of his way not to serve me at work. What a guy!
If I asked my ex a question, he hated answering, especially if it was to a question that would garner the slightest bit of control on my end. " hey Ex, should I pick up the dog registration on this date or this date." The response I would get was completely disproportionate to the question. I would get back a scowled face with a "I don't know, I don't know" response. Ahhh the aliens.
As Job said, continue to be the cool calm cucumber.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16