Time is a great healer, it really is. When two people take time apart and work on their issues, you'd be amazed at what you can and are willing to forgive.
For some people, an affair is a absolute deal-breaker. Case closed.
For others, an affair can actually be something that wakes them up and makes them want to work on the M. Look at some of the vets here that experienced an affair and their relationship with their spouse now is better than it was before the affair.
Remember, affairs are a symptom of something wrong in the relationship. People dont have affairs when they are on the same page as their spouse (unless they are a sociopath).
