One of the biggest challenges I'm seeing right now as I'm well into the DB book is that nearly all of the advice I am getting on here seems to contradict what I am reading in the book but maybe I'm just not far enough in.
Example, I have read nothing in the book that says I should be detaching. Everything so far is how to communicate better and show how I am doing the things to be a better man and husband. Detaching doesn't seem to be part of that so far. I almost feel like I need a flowchart to direct me on what I should or should not be doing at this point. I'll keep reading though.
Hello Derek,
It is easy to be conflicted when you have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head! Especially when you feel like the info you are getting here and in the book contradict each other. As you know, one size doesn't fit all!
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