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[Coly23]

Oh FightOn, I'm so sorry about being told you will be served D papers soon. I actually felt sick reading this especially how cold and clinical your H makes it seem. Like there is no emotion in it. Like telling you he won't serve you at work makes it better and you should be grateful. The whole legal system surrounding divorce is ridiculous and antiquated. It does not treat the people involved like living, breathing human beings. Being told you are going to be served is like asking if you can just stand still by that wall over there whilst I aim this gun at your head!

You are very brave to continue as you are. If that was me I would be a heap of nothing, fit for nothing. I'm absolutely dreading it. When my first H served me it was just a big brown envelope sent in the post and I didn't know it was coming. I still remember the sick feeling I had and if I had known then what I know now I wouldn't have been so quick to sort it all out. I thought legally I HAD to do everything straight away.

Thanks also for visiting me. I'm going to over to my thread now and respond to all the lovely messages.

Take care.