Another thing guys and gals...If a miracle happened and say for instance a year down the road after divorce is final and we are living our separate lives, etc... and then...she comes around and wants to get back together and get remarried, etc... What is the game-plan at that point? Tell her no, yes, wait it out, etc... Long shot this would ever happen but... Additionally, how would I ever forgive/forget what she is currently doing? Has anyone ever been through this? Good/bad stories?


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17