LITB, did your wife become a very different person when she was wayward, like almost unrecognizable to you, as far as her personality? And did she mostly turn back into her normal or old self after reconciliation?
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.