Thornton - 10-4! Got it and thanks for the clarification. I figure is she came back you could figure it out. Not that easy I guess. Well, Ive read stories of miracles on here of WAW coming back even after the divorce. Again, mine is such a compressed timeline and after all my wife has lost NOTHING through this process. I figure it may start to hit her once we are sitting with attorneys, going to court, and then ultimately sell the house. She loves our house and we built it together. The problem is, it will be too late at that point. However, we would have had to sell the house anyways due to the OM being directly across the street. Actually a light bulb just went off in my head. Maybe her thought process is as follows: 1) The affair (by both of us) happened in our house/bed. 2) Her affair is across the street. 3) maybe she is thinking of the quickest way to get out of both scenarios and start with a clean slate. But...her pushing so hard for the divorce and still seeing OM doesn't compute. I am fairly certain of two things in this situation. 1) her hot and heavy romantic affair to a still married man (albeit going through a divorce himself) while see is married will NOT last. 2) at some point she will realize her mistakes and want another chance. Will it be too late then??? Time will tell.
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17