Separated In Process of Divorce (Anniversary)

[180Man]

Sellout,

She is distracting herself from her problems. Yeah, things got out of hand, but try to find the silver lining. Now you have to give her space. That will be good for both of you. I find that the self-control needed to give space and detach is the hardest part. Now you don't have to worry about self-control! You have no choice but to give her space. And hopefully in time the A will blow up. Once the A blows up, maybe she will have time to reflect on things. By then you'll have had time to yourself to work on you.

I say these things not because I find them easy to do. In fact, 25mlc has been kicking my butt the past couple of days trying to help me get on the right track. I'm not great at this but I'm trying to see how I am screwing up and adjust fire.

I vote you stick around. I sùck at this as much as you do, but that doesn't mean we can't learn and grow into better people.