Thornton: very wise advice and thank you for that. However, quick question based on you footer signature. It appears you have been at this for over 3 years. At what point do you (we) decide its time to move on? A lifetime of events in my situation has transpires in 3.5 months, and now I am at the point where I can "handle" it anymore. My plan moving forward is to be a nice as possible during the divorce but not get taken advantage of. I will then be nice and courteous afterwards with the limited contact we may have. I am in no way to start dating again. From what Ive read you should wait at least 1 year after the divorce is final to start dating again. I just truly wonder if she is as happy as what she is leading on to being?!?!


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17