Yes, I plan to stick around these boards. I think I loved her "Too Hard" if that makes sense. I am shameful of my actions. Its crazy to think that you would hurt the ones you love the most. I do wonder however, based on her new relationship, and from everything I see and hear...it is going very well, is she hurting at all? Any pain, depression, or is she so far removed from the situation that she is so happy/go lucky?


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17