Originally Posted By: Kaizen
Originally Posted By: Mach1
I noticed that you really didn't answer her question about why you don't want the Divorce...

This struck me also. It reads like you held off on the divorce because you were letting her insurance continue rather than because you dont want to push for a divorce you dont want.

I think you did good not going down her rabbit holes, but Id say, instead of ignoring her questions, it may be best in the future to give small, concise snippets of things. The things Mach suggested are great examples.


I didn't want to say the wrong thing so I just waited and she moved the conversation on. I didn't have the words and I didn't want to sound weak.

How do I tell her I want her and our marriage back where she actually hears me after telling her a thousand times already?

Kaizen, can you give me some examples of these snippets you speak of?


M 8 yrs
EA 6/16
PA 09/16
Separated 10/16
WW moves out 11/16
D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17