Ok then, 82.195% detached works as well, just don't tell anyone else. I tried dating a few weeks after my divorce and I found that I just wasn't terribly interested so I took a break.
I've remained dark with my XW. I'm doing that, in part, because we seem to be a caustic mixture right now, but also because I don't want to be friend-zoned. For the long term, I don't think that's best for my sons, so I'll probably be a little more open with my XW in the coming months.
