Can you work w/ her to plan the divorce? Work on the timeline, kids, housing, finances, etc. Going through that process may help her get a clearer view of reality.
I'm planning on having an initial consultation with a divorce lawyer. Not because I want to get divorced but I need to understand how the process works and the best way to handle it. After that I am thinking I will have to demand a decision that involves a specific plan. It's pretty clear at this point that she is willing to leave us in limbo for as long as necessary with no real plan. It's to hard to live this way.
A few good things that have happened. W has kept her promise not to email celeb for 3 weeks so far. W seems a bit to embarrassed to talk much about it but based on some things she has said I think she realizes, at least partially, that no one is spying on her.
