we have been married for 17 years together for 19. she is 41 I am 43 2 kids girl 9 boy 3.
Our marriage was far from perfect specially after the boy was born thing got a little tough financially and physically tired.
As for other events, I must say she's been a good mum and committed wife until December 2015 when she started showing signs of detachment from me and the kids, according to her affair started summer 2016 so that is not the reason unless she still lies on length of affair.
When 2nd child was born she was extremely attached to him breastfed him till he was 1 year old and I started getting frustrated for luck of sex and intimacy. I believe part of the reason she blew into this is a freedom needed after over doing as a mum.
She change the reasons for our separation constantly, ILYBINILWY, We were 2 little kids (her AP is 24 year old), you never helped me (bear in mind I cook, wash dishes, look after kids on both days off by myself and still do, I mop the floor do washing up and so on as much as she does, although she is more proactive at preparing kids in the morning and school runs) she says she has not been happy for 10 years but surely that is not true then she says she hasn't been happy since boy was born.
I think the sex starved marriage apply to our problems ( she lacked intimacy and sex will and i grew angry) but if you ask her this is all my fault, she even said that to my little girl in early days of separation.
other signs that leads me to think about MLC are the money she spends.
I do not think she is happy and fulfilled in life even though she claim to be in love with AP.
she seems a completely different person she play cool her sleeping patterns have changed (I know from my little girl.
Although not so much now, she can be aggressive and make me sound like a monster in the marriage.
Of course the age gap between her 41 and OM 24 it is a big sign to me considering they want to build a serious relationship together.
She used to spend hours in front of mirror complaining about her weight and getting older ( shes actually beautiful and not weight problem whatsoever) in the last year, but that could be just the pressure of having a young lover, as I said she claims EA started summer 2016 became PA September 2016 but that could be a lie too.
She says a lot of lies nowadays which is totally out of character but then I guess every WS do.
M43 WW 41 OM 24 M 17 T 19 D 9 S 3 BD 04 -11-16 I left home same day PA confirmed -16-17 on going since September 2016 D FINAL 19-04-08
