I hesitate to post on a lot of other people's threads because (1) I've only been married 8 years and (2) I've only been DBing for a relatively short time and barely know wtf I'm doing. That said...I don't want to see you fall toward hatred. Hatred is a strong thing.

“I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.”
― Booker T. Washington

“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”
-Yoda


Just sayin'...