I'm very happy that you returned to give us an update. Reconnecting/piecing takes a long time and yes, it is a completely new marriage and both of you are so different after this life changing experience.
How are the children? How are you doing? I'm glad to read that your h is in therapy and I do hope he finds inner peace and comes to realize that what he was looking for was right there in front of him, i.e., his home, you and the children.
Take care and please don't be a stranger. We miss you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
