I said OM should support her and she shouldn't be hiding things from him as honesty and trust are the foundations of good relationships
Good job at throwing the dig in!
I never understand this^^ approach If the goal is to reconcile, OR to have a civil r b/c of kids, why throw a dig? Just seems like anger, which fuels & helps justify their choice to leave.
Imo, They won't slap their foreheads with guilt or shame as the catalyst for change
and say "OMG it's honesty and trust I forgot!" It's certainly not subtle enough to "plant a seed" if that is the goal.
Otherwise, I don't get it.
Just a thought
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
