Originally Posted By: whatisis
Hey G,I can understand your feelings. On one level things were flying real fast and he was all over you...and then suddenly on this occasion he's not. Holidays are indeed hard times and it's not easy to sit alone on Easter while FF if off with his family leaving you alone. Glad you were able to say how you felt and he was able to be honest about his feelings too. It's a bump in the road...but hopefully, that's all smile


You nailed exactly how I felt about yesterday and why I felt it. There are new revelations that I will discuss later.

We are in the middle of our first fight currently.

I still have old R patterns. I feel as if I am justified in my feelings or I have the right to be upset about something, I am told that I pretty much don't, then I go an agree and apologize.

Pretty much summed up how I handled my M. It's a scary thing when you don't know if you are over reacting or you are justified anymore.

Hopefully this is a bump in the road and we both handle it.