WW Help Needed

[codeman]

Update and Journaling..

W texted me on 4/15 asking if her medical procedure on 5/9 would be covered by our insurance if D is final on 5/8. I told her I would let her know on Monday. I wanted to ask my insurance rep.

It's Monday and insurance rep said it would not be covered as insurance coverage would end 5/8.
I decided to take your advice and step back. Hold off on emotional decisions and breathe.

Conversation with W went like this...

Me
"Your medical procedure will be covered by insurance."

W
OK when does my insurance officially end?

Me
Not sure at the moment

W
Why

Me
I'm putting the divorce on hold

W
ok Ty

W
I know you did not want to do that and I thank you for it I really need to have the procedure. So ty

Me
I never wanted the divorce. I only filed because you told me to.
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I thought it was what you wanted.

W
We had already discussed that a million times

Me
I'm not pursuing the divorce any longer

W
Why is that?

Me
I don't want it

W
Yes you do. Just look at it as your good deed for me. I really do appreciate you cause I really need to get this done.
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You told me you needed the divorce for you. I don't want to take that away. I just need to get my back better.

Me
I was mistaken when I said that.
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Don't worry about insurance but please let me know when you use flex so I can keep up with what's left.
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Hope your back gets better soon.

W
Ok I told you about the 70 for my meds then I got some for 5 the other day. That's it lately.
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Sorry I forgot to tell you about the 5
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Why do you not want the divorce now?

Me
No worries. That's what it's for.

W
I want you to be able to go on with your life. Find someone that makes you happy and live happily ever after

Me
Ty

W
I don't in anyway want to hurt you anymore than what has already happened.
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And yes I know you have moved on. I just want you to be free of me.
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Have a good day and thanks again

Me
Ty you too


Please let me know where I messed up or could have should have worded things better.
I appreciate your opinions.