I understand the context better and I hear your fears.
So, how ready is that baby of yours? Do we know what gender?
Is the nursery and or crib all set up? How are the boys about having a sibling and being "Big brothers"?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016